Selemani Family

Selemani Family
Victor, Lori, Victoria, Clara, Joshua, and David Beni

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Enjoying our yard

 
 
Our avocado tree finally is bearing fruit!  We planted it over 6 years ago and this year we finally have avocados!

The first avocado was given to the Lord since it was our first fruits!  A local missionary just happened to be here when the first one fell, so he got to take it home.  Little David Beni was the first in our family to eat the next avocado.  He got it smashed up with his porridge! 

We are also enjoying the roses in our yard.  These yellow ones grow near our front door.  I cut these two and we enjoyed them on our day the next couple days.

We are especially glad to be enjoying ripe avocados and bright roses when we here of late snowstorms in the USA.  We hope you all can be enjoying spring soon!

DTS Update:
Thank you for praying for more staff.  We now have several different people considering and praying about helping us staff.  Some graduates from the 2011 DTS are willing to come.  The challange is that they lack finances to cover their stay here.  Please keep praying and hopefully in a week or two we can report on who has committed to help staff the school.

Monday, April 8, 2013

DTS is coming!

61 day and counting down to the Opening of our Lichinga 2013 Discipleship Training School!

I apologize for the dormancy of this blog for a year + now.  I'm hoping to revive it, mostly to provide more details about the DTS than I have space for in the monthly prayer updates. 

Perhaps I will squeeze out some time to squeeze in some pictures and news about the kids.  We'll see.  The days are full, leaving little time for "extras" besides the normal daily activities.

There.  I have it!  A new post.  More next time!

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Rain

It is the rainy season here and it has rained and rained and rained the last 3 weeks. Here is Victoria 3pm on the day of her birthday party. (Her birthday is on Christmas Day but we had her party the Thursday before. The party was to start at 3pm and that is exactly when the clouds burst open. No guests came at 3pm. At 3:30, still no one, still lots of rain. Around 3:40, the first special "aunty" made a dash through the rain to come (and had to borrow a change of clothes because she was soaked.) With the neighbor children coming around 4:15, the party finally got underway. Victoria wasn't put out with the delay. What is time anyways? The party still happened.

Then we had our YWAM beginning of the year meetings Friday, Saturday and Sunday mornings (the first weekend in January). All went well until Sunday morning. It had rained most of the night and was still raining in the morning. Because most of our teammates come by foot or bicycle, our meetings started almost 1 1/2 late. A family trudged through the mud and rain to get to our car for us to take them the rest of the way. Victor went out to one ministry location to pick up "stranded" staff there.

We've spent several cozy nights falling asleep to the sound of rain on our tin roof.

We see beautiful rainbows.

Driving becomes more hazardous as the pedestrians (and there are dozens of them at any given spot in the road) who once walked on the shoulder of the road, now walk on the road because the shoulders are mud puddles.

Line drying clothes takes lots of patience as you hang them out, take them in, hang them out again, take them in......after 2 or 3 days, the clothes finally dry.

But needless to say, we were very happy to see the sunshine now two days in a row!

And people's corn crops are growing for which we thank the Lord!

Sorry, I've not done well posting frequently lately. I had tried to post our children's Christmas cookie decoration party, but the internet was funny and after trying without success to post it, I gave up. I still have not managed to post with ease....either the pictures don't download as I want or the internet stalls on me or something. But I'll keep working on it. 'Till next time...

Monday, December 19, 2011

Christmas cookie party!





We have started a little tradition: A Christmas cookie decorating party! We did it last year and now again this year. We invited the neighbor children over to join the fun. I bake the cookies the day before. This year we had 9 children, including our 3! I make popcorn to fill the tummies if they are hungry. The cookies are not for eating at my house. They are to take home! I didn't want sugar high kids in our house!

We had the party on Saturday. On Friday, almost of the children were at our house playing, so we took the opportunity to do the Christmas story as a drama. The children really enjoyed that, playing angels, shepherds, wise men. The point of the cookie party is to use the cookie shapes to explain the Christmas story to the children and remind them when they go home. The children who had done the party with us last year remembered the story quite well. The other neighbor children who had not done it last year were wide eyed and I'm not sure how much they caught. They come from a Muslim home and they also do not understand Portuguese that well. But it is a start!

Well, I wrote this almost a month ago, and didn't get it posted due to internet problems. I guess I'll post it now. Better late than never.

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Raising Multi-Lingual Children

"Mo MO mo!" Joshua's worried voice carries from out of their bedroom. Upon arriving, I see the reason for his distress. A little gecko has managed to get on the inside of his mosquito net, thus almost becoming Joshua's bed partner! (Sorry, I didn't run grab the camera. If I would have, you could have seen Joshua's mo mo mo). Well, we shoo the little gecko outside and Joshua settles down to sleep.

Momomo (pronounced with all long vowel sounds for the O and the stress on the second sylable) is the baby word here for bug. I can't really say "momomo" is Portuguese or Yao, it is local baby language and Joshua has picked it up. Thus any bug is a moMOmo..... and the word is also used to scare a small child or warn him from going somewhere. All you need to say is "MoMOmo" and the child stops in his tracks (or runs to see if you are pointing at something and curiosity beats out fear!)

Joshua is speaking more words these days and it is fun to hear his little commentaries. He also takes his turn to pray at meal times. His prayers are mostly unintelligeable, but the AMEN is clear!

Our children are growing up multi-lingual. It is intentional. We had wanted them to know English and Swahili (one of Victor's languages.) And of course they have picked up Portuguese here as well as some ChiYao.Most of Joshua's words are English, but he prefers using "agua" for water and "aviao" for airplane (we live in the landing path to the airport so the airplanes fly over regularly!)

Victoria just ran in to tell me that the neighbor children who are here playing, who generally speak Yao are speaking Portuguese with them, so they are getting along together just fine. Although, I'm sure they would have figured out how to understand each other anyways.

I was reminded how much the children have learned Portuguese when we had a visitor for lunch last Friday who spoke primarily Chiyao. Victor and I managed to follow the conversation in Yao, but Clara kept asking "What did she say, Mom?" "What did she say?" That reminded me that a year ago, the girls were doing the same thing when I talked with Maria, the lady helping in our home, in Portuguese. They wanted a translation of EVERYTHING we said. But now they rarely ask for translation as they generally follow the conversation.

I insist that when the children start a sentence in one language, that they finish in the same language. But then I find myself slipping in a nice Portuguese word into an English sentence. Oops! I need to practice what I preach!

Anyways, sorry for the long delay in adding a new blog post. Our life went from the rigorous pace of DTS to a daily routine, but somehow that daily routine keeps me busy too. I'll try to steal minutes here and there to continue to give you glimpes into our life here.

Friday, October 28, 2011

DTS Graduation

The big day came. The DTS graduation took place at our training center here in Lichinga on October 22, 2011. We graduated 20 students. With gratefulness in our hearts to the Lord we sang praises and celebrated the great work He had done in and through our students.

The couple pictured above receiving their certificates are just one testimony of God's grace. The husband shared his testimony during the graduation service, explaining how before he loved women and lived in unfaithfulness to his wife. He viewed his wife as just someone at home to serve him. But he has now repented and they are planning to go back home to legalize their marriage. They came up hand in hand to receive their certificates. Just watching them makes you smile as they are obviously enjoying a new found friendship and intimacy that came from 5 months of growing in the Lord together and serving Him.
This couple has 4 children and gave testimony to God's work: The husband now understands and has stepped into his responsibilities as husband, father, and leader of the home. The wife understands how she needs to invest more in her children. Before their children would occasionally be sent off to live with different relatives but now the parents want all their children under their roof, recognizing their responsibility not only to care for them physically but also to teach them God's ways. They still have a long ways to go. but they have a good start down the right path. This family and the other family returned to a village on the lake and immediately were involved in teaching in a seminar that their pastor had organized! Their time of outreach is not finished! It has only begun as they return home to serve! Pray for strength and protection for them!


The students were so excited to receive their certificates! This is a happy picture and a sad picture as this group will probably never again be together this side of heaven. Good byes are hard after having invested so much time and energy and heart in living, learning, and serving together!

Friday, September 23, 2011

Family Time

The 3 months of the lecture phase of the DTS (Discipleship Training School) was intense for our family as we moved out to the training center and immersed ourselves in the school. The last couple weeks have been stretching, with Victor gone transporting the DTS teams to their outreach locations and spending some time with them in the different villages.

So it was high time for some family time. What do we do for family time? Well, one favorite activity has become riding bicycles at the airport. Why the airport?

Our yard looks like this:
The grass and dirt are uneven, not conducive to learning to ride a bicycle.

However, the airport has long stretches of pavement as well as a nice park section with hard packed dirt trails. Most days, only one airplane comes and goes, creating activity at the airport only a couple hours of the day. In the afternoons, it is a deserted place, a nice quiet place for family time!So we enjoyed a nice time there together.
Happy faces! All agreed that it was a good time together as a family. Well, I guess Joshua agreed too. These days, any question you ask him, you get a "Yah" as a response. What an agreeable little fellow!

So there you had a peak into one of our family times!